Only two days left

Today is a bright sun shiny day here in Garrison, NY. Hope your enjoying your weather.

While many of you may be enjoying a winter recess with your children, I'm putting the finishing touches on to bring you the best parenting workshop ever. With only two days left be sure to grab your spot for the workshop below.

http://threestepparenting.blogspot.com/p/parenting-from-theinside-out-take.html

This workshop is guaranteed to bring you all the necessary skills to be the best parent to your children.

Here are just a few of the many things that will be covered in the workshop.
Learn all about yourself and why you make the decisions you do.
Learn how to create routine and structure for any situation that arises.
as well as so much more.

PS: As a added bonus. Sign up at the link below and recieve as an added bonus 1 free teleconference after the seminar.

http://threestepparenting.blogspot.com/p/parenting-from-theinside-out-take.html

PPS: what are you waiting for!!

I look forward to seeing you on Saturday.

Todd

What happens in Public!

Hey (insert name here)

Today is Valentines day and after a great morning with the kids, I'm ready to rock.

One of the greatest parenting approaches that I see in use today is parents who are parenting for the best interest of their children. What do I mean by this. So many times in public I'll see parents correcting their children more out of embarrassment for themselves then the actions of thier children. Parents have a funny way of teaching their children not right and wrong, but don't embarrass.

When it comes to correcting children the approach should be two fold.

1. Focusing on teaching your child that their behavior is not acceptable. (not the child) with
consequence coming second. (consequence meaning a time out etc.)

2. To do what is in the best interest of your child, Not anyone else.

When it comes to young children and discipline, the closer to an incident that you can correct the behavior the more likely your child will be able to relate the action with the consequence.

I would love to hear your comments.
post below.

Todd

PS: If you havent alreay signed up for the parenting workshop on the 25th. Do so below. Spaces are filling up fast.

http://threestepparenting.blogspot.com/p/parenting-from-theinside-out-take.html

What are you waiting for sign up now!!

After a great sunny day here in NY I have Great News!!

I will be running a parenting workshop at the end of the month.

February 25th

In Garrison NY

9-12

During this 3 hour workshop parents can expect to learn:

Tested, proven parenting techniques

How to effectively break bad habits

Why children behave the way they do

How to yell less and communicate more

Why routine and structure are so important when it comes to raising a family

How to keep in mind the bigger picture of your children's future.

Who should attend?

Anyone who is eager to learn how to be a better caregiver to children,

whether you're a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, nanny or childcare provider.

For more information and to register

Click on the link below.

http://threestepparenting.blogspot.com/p/parenting-from-theinside-out-take.html

PS: As an added bonus, because parenting should not be a one person operation, sign up prior to February 13th, my birthday and your guest will attend for free.

What are you waiting for sign up now!!

The cost is cheaper than a babysitter for the night

Why is Parenting so Hard???

Why does parenting seem so hard to so many and so easy to others??

Parenting in itself is not a hard skill to learn. The issue is that parents are faced with so many other obligations, emotions and challenges in life besides parenting. Think of it this way. You go to work and for 8 hours, your job is to fulfill whatever your job is. Your focus should be one minded, completing the task at hand. Now if you returned home and for the next 8 hours your job was to parent it would not be so hard. This is not the case for most. For most arrive at home, take a deep breath, enter the house and begin where they left off from the morning. That might be finishing cooking meals, taking out the trash, doing laundry, completing homework, cleaning the kids rooms, trying to complete that assignment for the boss, reading the newspaper, trying to catch a quick workout, mowing the yard, touching up or beginning that house project, providing transportation (you get the point) and then comes the parenting.

Why am I telling you this? One, to let you know that you are not alone if you feel this way. So many parents I meet feel this way. The difference between a good parent and a great parent is the approach and attitude you take to handling this type of role in your life.

Try these quick thoughts to help you refocus yourself and embrace what parenting means to you.

1. Every adult needs time to themselves to do the things they enjoy. (whatever that means to you) I put this first because of how important it is and how so many push it aside. Sometimes putting yourself first, takes away any feelings of resentment.

2. Create a consistent routine and clear expectations within your home. The routine should be designed so that it allows all members within the home to flourish. (Not just what you as the parents thinks is best).

3. Spend time as a family as often as possible without any gadgets, cell phones vidio games etc. try an old fashion board game, trip to the local library, a local event or anything else. This atmosphere provides for non interupted (much needed) time with your children.

Post what works in your home for others to see.

Cheers,

Todd

Hey all,

With the holidays approaching and here for some, just wanted to remind all to capitalize on the time spent with your family. While sitting around can be relaxing, it often is boring for your children. Try to squeeze one or two of the activities they enjoy into your busy schedule. It will not only be fun and great bonding time but may lead to some great some great discussions that have been overdue for some while now.

Also for those giving the gift of a NOOK, IPAD etc. be sure to download your copy of Three step parenting at the link below.

http://threestepparenting.blogspot.com


Ps: what are you waiting for. With time off at the holidays you will need this book more than ever. Plus it is only $2.99. It will cost you more in gas to drive to the store alone.

Todd

Tips from Todd / Wake Up Call

As I celebrate my daughters 9th birthday it reminds me of why I wanted to start a family in the first place. We so often get wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life that we as parents forget the number one reason why we wanted to start a family. NO not to clean the house and yard. (Good luck if that's your reason). To be part of something larger than your own life, to enjoy their laughter and unconditional love all while watching them grow into productive adults. With that in mind, try working on this tip and see how things go.

By the end of the day we are sometimes spent and become easily frustrated. Starting tomorrow begin every day forward this way. Wake up with a positive attitude. START FRESH, Greet each member of your family as they wake up with a smile, a hug and a Huge Good Morning Greeting. Continue throughout the day to display extra ordinary respect to everyone you come in contact with.

Children learn by example. Be sure you are thier postive example. I'm sure if surveyed 100 out of 100 adults would not like to raise a grumpy child.

It is so hard to be upset or grumpy at someone who is so nice. Make that nice person you. It will only brighten your life as well as the wonderful children you are raising.

Please post any great ideas you have below.

To a great day,
Todd

Grab Bag on the Go

For families with children in various activities throughout the week try this great idea to keep your children occupied while your on the go.

Find an old book bag around your home. Pack it with items that will keep your children entertained for a period of time. (My families is packed with coloring books, crayons, notebooks, pens, a puzzle, comic books and other reading literature). Other ideas include: sporting equipment, musical instruments, travel size board games etc. etc.

It is best if you keep this bag in your car so it is always with you when needed.
The key is to keep it simple and fun.

A few places you may find useful to use your bag: Sporting events, long car rides, if you had to bring your child to work, laundry facilities and my favorite out to dinner.

Share some of the places you would find useful for a Grab Bag on the Go.

Todd