You know the feeling when you see your child sad, stressed, anxious, etc etc. and your inner super parent mode kicks in that says Mom or Dad to the rescue.
If so, then you are ready to BACK OFF. Today, lets focus on letting go and allowing your child to figure out some uncomfortable situation on their own.
If you can answer YES to the below questions then you are ready to let GO and allow your child to fly or flop out of the nest.
1. Is my child able to handle this particular situation.
2.Am I able to place my parenting on hold temporarily to allow my child to grow.
3. Have I taught my child right and wrong.
4. Am I OK with my child making the wrong decision and using that as a teaching tool.
If you have been role modeling positive parenting, then your child should be able to handle a variety of situations. In the beginning of letting go, whether it is working out a dispute with a sibling or allowing your teenager to attend the movies with friends for the first time due your part by trying to set up the day for success.
Enjoy every stage,
Todd
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